Saturday, May 17, 2008

Marriage Life : before n after...

  • Before married... Darling here n darling there, After Married... Baling here n baling there
  • Before married... I die for you, After Married... You die, up to you, Lagi lama married... You die I help You!!!
  • Before married... You go anywhere I follow you, After Married.. Up to You
  • Before married... You are my heart n your are my love, After Married... You are up to my nerves!!!
  • Before married... Your are sweet and kind just like Cinderella, After married... You are worse then Godzilla
  • Before married... Roses are red, violets are blue, Like it or not, I'm stuck with your. After married... Roses are dead, I am blue. You get on my head, I will sue you!!
  • Before married... Every makan he brings you to Shangrila, After married... You want to go, he says you wait-lah!!!
  • Before married... She looks like Anita Sarawak, After married... Don't know whether katak or biawak


Anonymous said...

In marriage it is normal where couples behave opposite manner. That actually won't happen to those who know how to be married. As Malay saying: Sebelum kahwin, lelaki bercakap dan isteri dengar aje. Sesudah kahwin, giliran isteri pula bercakap dan suami dengar aje. Bila dah lama kahwin, dua-dua bercakap dan habis jiran-jiran semua dengar. Last-last, satu kampung dengar.
Another saying which is true: Sayang isteri ditinggalkan. Sayang suami, jangan biar-biarkan. Baru selamat.
To save your marriage, don't bluff. It doesn't mean you must tell everytihng. Number 2 is, once awhile, talk in your sleep and surely your wife will listen. Say something positif as though you are having nightmare. It helps. Especially when your wife is no longer listen to you. Number 3 ande most important is: If you want your children to love you, show them that you love their mother.
Do you know that once there was a research done by a marriage consultant company paid by the government of America to find out why do married couples endup with divorce. The research took 30 years and at last came out really good answer - because they got married.

Poria said...

Thanks for writing this.